Seriously, is this freedom?

Question

The same people who say I shouldn't impose my morality on them, are imposing immorality on me and my children to the point that I literally have a hard time even leaving my home anymore to do something as simple as visit the park. And this is freedom?

I am a Catholic stay-at-home mother of seven, and I live in the state of Massachusetts where "gay marriage" has been legal for seven years and it's just one aspect of the larger secular agenda. Because we have so many little children, it takes a phenomenal effort to go anywhere. We have only filled our truck with gasoline twice this entire summer vacation. We go to Mass and we go two miles up the road to a small outdoor swimming pool. That's pretty much it.

At the pool this summer there were homosexual couples with children and, while I was polite as my own young daughters doted on the baby with two "mommies", I also held my breath in anticipation of awkward questions - questions I'm not ready to answer. My young daughters are all under the age of eight and they are not old enough to understand why a baby would have two women calling themselves "mommies".

When there were two men relaxing at the side of the pool unnaturally close to each other, effeminately rubbing elbows and exchanging doe-eyes, I was again anxiously watching my children hoping they wouldn't ask questions. They don't see Daddy do that with anyone but Mommy. We haven't been back to the pool for a couple of weeks, except once but it rained. The truth is, now I don't really want to go back.

So what am I harping about?

Today we decided to go to the park. We live near a nice park that is safe, clean and quiet. Two of my daughters were in the sandbox, one on the slide, the other on the swings, and as I lifted the baby out of his stroller I looked up to see four women laughing at a baby boy as he was swinging in one of those bucket baby swings. That seems harmless enough, but I'm so sensitized to the strangeness in my community that I've developed this ever-present jumpiness whenever I'm in public. Sure enough, two of the women, so happy to see a baby boy laughing, embraced and remained standing there rubbing each other's back in a way that was clearly not just friendly affection.

This is my community. I find myself unable to even leave the house anymore without worrying about what in tarnation we are going to encounter. We are responsible citizens. We live by the rules, we pay our taxes, we take care of our things. I'm supposed to be able to influence what goes on in my community, and as a voter I do exercise that right. But I'm outnumbered. I can't even go to normal places without having to sit silently and tolerate immorality. We all know what would happen if I asked two men or two women to stop displaying, right in front of me and my children, that they live in sodomy.

So now I go on a rant.

Our taxes are being used to fund contraception, abortion and IVF already. That offends me in ways that are inexpressible. I read last December in the Wall Street Journal how two men near us are raising two assembled daughters after announcing to the world how they killed two other siblings in surrogate mothers in India. Let me guess? I shouldn't offend them though, right? And what's next at the park? A needle exchange drop-box for heroin users? No joke. These things are not isolated, it is all the same issue at a fundamental level. We're being pushed to accept immorality and it's not just on TV and in Washington D.C. It's right in front of us too.

We fund a lot of illegal immigrants here (just ask the President about his auntie) and helping people who really need help is not something I'd ever oppose. But it's still haunting me that just this week I learned of an illegal immigrant who killed a young man innocently out for a ride on his motorcycle. The illegal immigrant, who didn't have a license, was so drunk he didn't notice when he hit a motorcyclist and then dragged the 23 year old college graduate a quarter of a mile while people were yelling at him to stop. When he finally did stop, the young man was still alive until the drunk driver put the car in reverse and backed up over him before driving away. He's charged with vehicular homicide and "reckless conduct creating a risk to a child." He had a six year old in the car with him.

Do you think knowing this happened about seven miles from my home makes me afraid to leave the house? You bet it does. But that just adds to everything else I'm being asked to tolerate. Seriously, is this freedom?
9 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.

Answer 1

I think you need to understand that the world is changing, and you disagreeing with how it is a sign that its going in the right direction. You can sit back and think that were going to hell in a hand basket all you like but just remember that their was a time that they believed that women such as yourself were not equal and could not express views like this aloud and image if those same people that believed that lived today they would be just as agree if not more then what you are feeling today so if Conservative views are not dying out in some way, then we are not moving forward as a society

Answer 2

You can't take away other peoples' freedom with the excuse that it is somehow infringing on yours because of your oversensitivity.

I live in Holland, and here there are very conservative religious communities which keep to themselves when they don't want to mix with the rest of society. Perhaps the answer for you is also to seek out a religious community in your own country where you will feel more protected against things that offend you.

Answer 3

For so long it was actually YOUR morality that was imposed upon US under the possible force of violence.



You sight questionable anecdotal incidents (which are aberrations when compared to statistical information, such as, who is and why are they responsible for the majority of drunk driving accidents) that are supposed to fuel mass hysteria, but apparently they have worked their magic by forcing you to become a shut-in.

Answer 4

Yes it is freedom to love who you want to love! Stop being such a homophobe. Its not "unnatural" or "immorale". How can something that naturally happens be unnatural? "Oh no two men are being affectionate! This must be a rip within the space time continium and natural boundaries of our vital existence and therefore is unnatural!" and what is immorale with loving who you want to love? If loving who you wish to love is immorale than I guess we should all be ashamed with our boyfriends and girlfriends, wives and husbands.



Move to China if you want to see people oppressed for being who they are.

This is America where freedom reigns for all, not just for Christians.

Answer 5

Yes, freedom is people being able to love, date, and marry another consenting adult of their choosing.

You are also free to move if you don't like it.



Illegal immigration is against the law so, no, that has little to do with your rant about freedom.

Again, you might try out Alabama if you want an illegal free, homosexual free state.



And, no, "furries" are not a threat to national security, no matter how weird that is.

Your last question: https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20111030120944AATZ43Q

Answer 6

@pluto-were you the one rioter i saw in tokyo after the sooooonami? while everyone else is patiently waiting for supplies

Answer 7

Seriously?

I'd be asking God if this is what He wants for my children, and then in faith, I'd move. Right away.

Answer 8

'I live in the state of Massachusetts'



This question was posted from Canada?

Answer 9

I left facist US 15 years ago. There is far more freedom here in highly wealthy, wage equity, Socialist Japan -- no comparison.