Question:
Why do Republicans oppose gay marriage?
1970-01-01 00:00:00 UTC
Why do Republicans oppose gay marriage?
241 answers:
Karolyn L.
2016-03-28 06:53:50 UTC
Religion
lorne
2016-03-28 02:05:12 UTC
Republicans are conservatives and conservatives want to stay traditional. Same sex marriage is traditional
2016-03-27 23:47:15 UTC
Ignorance
2016-03-28 00:26:07 UTC
The vast amount of Republicans are conservatives, generally conservatives are Christians that perceive the Bible as very literal scripture. In the Bible, being homosexual is considered sinful an wrong. A large piece of Republicans fit this mold and oppose gay marriage simply because their belief system thinks it is "wrong." On a different end of the spectrum, some Republicans do not oppose gay marriage itself, but they want the legalization to come from state government decision rather than from a federal institution of law. While I can understand this point of view, I am a firm believer of a secular government with no religious affiliation or intolerance. In my opinion, the United States needs to cut ties with any mention of God or religious basis when it comes to politics. I hope my explanation answers your question, and remember to always look at the other side of the story!
Joe
2016-03-29 16:06:32 UTC
This is a very ignorant question. Not all Republicans oppose gay marriage, Not all independents nor all Democrats support gay marriage.



Not all religions support gay marriage. Marriage for many people is a religious institution. It has always been one and always will be. People to not have to accept it, that it the beauty of the constitution in this country which grants people the right to exercise the "freedom of religion". Many religions do not accept or recognize gay marriage and never will, it is not your right nor the right of others to force your beliefs upon those people. They have a right to practice their religious beliefs, if certain religious belief systems and there are those other than Christianity that do not accept gay marriage, it is their right under the constitution.



You should learn to understand the facts and the laws of the land. The problem with many Liberals in this country is that they only want to apply the rules of law when it suits their needs, wants, and desires.
2016-03-27 22:29:21 UTC
It has no impact on religion. If Christians want to deny LGBT rights I will deny Christian rights. I promise this!
Naughtynerd
2016-03-29 12:48:04 UTC
The question should be Why do some republicans oppose gay marriage? Don't assume all conservatives oppose gay marriage. Too me it doesn't matter. If I were running for president I would be concerned about the deficit and people having jobs.
Anthony
2016-03-29 09:16:04 UTC
It's not that they oppose gay marriage. Republicans believe in marriage as a religious sacrament more than something involving the government and a legal union between two people. They believe that the true definition of marriage is a union between a man and a woman. By allowing gay marriage, it would break the tradition of the sacrament.
Makayla
2016-03-28 17:13:47 UTC
I'm a republican and I don't appose gay marriage, I'm actually pro gay marriage. Not everyone is going to be in the same category.
Nick N. Ame
2016-03-28 14:36:30 UTC
Because they find it more exciting if its wrong.
Tari
2016-04-16 22:12:35 UTC
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Leoand
2016-03-28 11:02:42 UTC
There are a few reasons why Conservatives and some Libertarians are against government recognizing and supporting homosexual relationships. The first reason is religious. There's not much to say about this reason. It's cultural. It's traditional. They have religious texts that say don't marry the same sex. Therefore, they're against it. The second reason, which is a reason that some Libertarians take, is that marriage shouldn't be institutionally recognized or supported by government at all. However, if government is going to support and recognize, it makes sense to only care about the marriages that have children. Government shouldn't care about those marriages that do not have children. Adoption agencies can give gay couples children. But, these are cases that work outside the realm of what should occur, as in, there shouldn't be children without parents. It should be rare. There are also arguments about children having the right to a mother and a father, and, if government doesn't give adopted children to heterosexual couples, then that child is missing sometimes important from their lives... Interesting arguments. There's also the argument that legalizing gay marriage will open the doors to polygamy, but, I think, the LGBT movement have already adopted the idea of polygamy and polyandry, which kinda legitimizes their argument. I think a lot of people these days who argue for gay marriage, also argue in support of the marriage of multiple people. Finally, there's the argument that the constitution gives states the right to regulate marriage and that it is not a federal issue, which has merit to it because... well... marriage wasn't a right... It's a social and legal contract.
?
2016-03-28 20:08:41 UTC
Acctualy the the CDC was the only reason it was banned for so long is cause the CDC found the thought of seeing 2 dudes kiss in public will cause someone to throw up which will create a chain reaction of throw up around the whole world which will then cause a virus strong enough to erode the earth slowly and most scientist predict there will no longer be a earth by the year 2069.So basically what the CDC is saying if you support gay marriage you are also supporting the world ending in 2069 (If your like younger than 30 or you have kids just make sure to rember the CDC warned you a crap ton of years ago.Oh yea acctually all republicans don't like gay marriage because 97% of republicans work at CDC and the other 3 are official slaves of the CDC,so acctually they made be on your side but they don't really have a choice but if all goes to plan the resistance aka CDC will be ready to go to war against all glitter company's and afterr all the glitter is gone well u know the rest! Lesbian
Matthiu
2016-03-29 01:46:16 UTC
ill give you the only reasons you need to know that no one else will ever tell you... everything else everyone thinks they know about this issue is bs that gets spread around... the reason marriage is a two person thing and not more is because it takes 1 man and 1 woman to make a baby.. thats the only reason marriage is a two person thing.. what is the significance of 2 gay people marrying? there is no meaning for 2 gay people to marry.. why not three or more? there is nbo significance.. also marriage is a religious thing.. if the religion is against homosexuality then how does it make sense to force the religion to accept homosexuality? if the religion claims god wrote this book then how does it make sense to say that the human legal system will change what god said... marriage should not have anything to do with the state but for some reason it does and thats really why gays want it because they want the legal benefits of marriage.. love has nothing to do with marriage and a lot of people are resisting marriage because the divorce rate is so high and men always lose in divorce.. women dont marry for love they marry for money.. do a little research or a lot and this is the only conclusion you will come to.. marriage is about a man and a woman creating a child.. people say oh but not all straight couples can make a child.. thats not the point.. thats rare and the point of marriage is still for a man and a woman to make a child.. they dont even have to love eachother... love is poetic shakespeare and actually the play romeo and juliet is the main reason people believe in love.. before that play no one believed in love.. after it now women believe they should marry for love and theyve been chasing it ever since and now women just want jobs and rich husbands.. not love...
2016-03-29 00:56:52 UTC
Hitler's genocide had no effect on my life either. It doesn't mean it should be ignored.



The government defining words and then enforcing their use through force is scarily similar to the book 1984



On top of that it violates most of the constitution. It violates the 1st amendment three times, the 5th twice, the 7th, the 9th and the 10th. That's just the bill of rights. It also violates the equal protection clause of the 14th amendment and goes well beyond the powers of the federal government granted by the constitution.



Furthermore, it sets precedents and puts us on a path that could destroy everything good in this country. I guarantee someone will want to marry a farm animal in the next decade.



On top of that, the entire premise is anti-science. Do you really want to live in a world where the government dictates what is true instead of facts? Homosexuality is a choice. That is a provable fact. The government ignores that though and declares it to be genetic without a shred of evidence. Nazi Germany, the USSR and dark ages europe did similar things.



And the one thing most people don't understand is the whole push for normalizing homosexuality has NOTHING to do with rights. Its roots are in eugenics and malthusian theory both of which are discredited today. It's also intended to be divisive and pander to certain groups.



I couldn't care less what two consenting adults want to do. But, that's not what so-called "gay marriage" is about. If it was they would have happily compromised with civil unions.
Michelle
2016-03-28 21:29:46 UTC
I am a republican and I do not oppose gay marriage. I love how the liberals answered this question and lumped all conservatives together. If you want the true and right answer, ask republicans only. They will tell you what side of the fence they fall onto. I actually know a ton of blue bloods that are 100% against gay marriage. So, it is not a republican or democrat issue. It is like saying only democrats care about minorities. Not true either.
The First Dragon
2016-03-28 19:16:04 UTC
It is not just a question of one's political Party. You know that.

But why do a lot of people oppose same-sex marriage?

Well, in all of history and [as far as we can tell] pre-history], it has never been done before, and there must be a reason.

Of course there have been same-sex couples. In some cultures, such as ancient Greece, homosexual love was considered a higher love than that between a man and a woman. But why bring marriage into it? Marriage is for heirs, for getting and raising children.

I understand wanting to be acknowledged as a couple.

Jesus never mentioned gay marriage. Why? Because nobody had ever heard of it. Not that there are no same-sex couples in the Bible. There are. But marriage did not enter into it.
?
2016-03-29 08:58:15 UTC
There are many Republicans who do not oppose gay marriage. Ask a question without generalizing an entire group of people as if they don't have their own ideals and beliefs.
tom
2016-03-29 08:48:16 UTC
Republicans oppose gay marriage because Democrats oppose gay marriage as well. Its not about the party its about the people. There plenty republicans that don't oppose it and plenty of democrats that do oppose it. You can't just put everything on one party and not the other because honestly no party is right about anything. #justsaying!
?
2016-03-29 18:43:36 UTC
Most Republicans that I know oppose gay marriage.
?
2016-03-31 19:38:45 UTC
Not all Republicans do oppose gay marriage. Being a Republican and following the Republican Party doesn't mean that they have a rule book opposing gay marriage. Thats like saying why do all Democrats hate guns and gun laws. But, without being said it is known for many Republicans to oppose gay marriage. And for most of the reasons they are most likely has to do with most Conservatives being Christian, and following the bible. In certain quotes of the Old Testament, there are lots of sayings like "if someone is homosexual, they shall be put to death". So it's not ALL Republicans, just a decent amount due to them most likely following Christianity.



“If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death.” (Leviticus 20:13)
Kevin7
2016-03-31 10:47:50 UTC
Many Republicans support Gay marriage
?
2016-03-29 15:14:20 UTC
Yes, I don't understand much either. Bit your stereotyping republicans. Not all of them believe in no gay marriage, only some of them. I think the biggest reason people think they have the right to butt in on gay marriage and make it a problem is because of being brainwashed. This includes being brainwashed by some religious "rules", the past or just quite plainly other people. Some people follow the discrimination that had affected us and therefore continues to do so. We are still in the process of erasing discrimination of all types.
Jason
2016-03-31 13:13:05 UTC
Therefore, they're against it. The second reason, which is a reason that some Libertarians take, is that marriage shouldn't be institutionally recognized or supported by government at all. However, if government is going to support and recognize, it makes sense to only care about the marriages that have children. Government shouldn't care about those marriages that do not have children. Adoption agencies can give gay couples children. But, these are cases that work outside the realm of what should occur, as in, there shouldn't be children without parents. It should be rare. There are also arguments about children having the right to a mother and a father, and, if government doesn't give adopted children to heterosexual couples, then that child is missing sometimes important from their lives... Interesting arguments. There's also the argument that legalizing gay marriage will open the doors to polygamy, but, I think, the LGBT movement have already adopted the idea of polygamy and polyandry, which kinda legitimizes their argument. I think a lot of people these days who argue for gay marriage, also argue in support of the marriage of multiple people. love is poetic shakespeare and actually the play romeo and juliet is the main reason people believe in love.. before that play no one believed in love.. after it now women believe they should marry for love and theyve been chasing it ever since and now women just want jobs and rich husbands.. not love...
2016-03-30 16:14:33 UTC
I don't agree with ANY reason to legally ban gay marriage. Religious reasons should not matter because of the separation of church and state. Religious groups can choose not to perform gay weddings but thats separate from the law. Ability to have children shouldn't matter either. Lots of straight couples can't have kids. I think gay couples should have the same rights regarding medical decisions, insurance, pensions, child custody, divorce, spousal privilege, and any other benefits of marriage. It's not ok to deny someone the right to make end of life decisions for their spouse or their right to a family health plan just because others think their relationship is gross or immoral. Anyone who doesn't like gay marriage can just not participate. No amount of gay couples can affect the quality of straight couples. If straight people can get drunk, go to Vegas, and be married by an Elvis impersonator, it's only fair to allow gay people to make the same stupid mistakes.
Mike
2016-03-29 14:52:50 UTC
I am not a republican cause I don't follow politics nor do I care about them. But I do oppose gay marriage.
Brandon
2016-03-29 11:59:30 UTC
Why do everybody act like Repulican are Agianst gay marriage? There are also plenty of democrat that are against gay marriage as well. People that are against called homophobic. Reason why some people are Agianst it because They believe a marriage is between a man and women. I not really for gay marriage and I don't hate them ether. I think it's wrong to beat and physically hurt them. Some people think it's wrong because God said so. But we shouldn't be judges.
?
2016-03-28 15:18:31 UTC
Get it right, CONSERVATIVE Republicans oppose it, and even then not all of them do. The Conservatives oppose it because of their Religious views. Unfortunately they refuse to accept that we have separation of church and state in this country. They also refuse to accept that the only place it ever speaks against gay marriage was in Leviticus, which is NOT a Christian thing, it's a Jewish thing. Leviticus is a book of the Torah. But the non-denominational "Christians" seem to take many pages from the Jews which is hilarious seeing as how thats the COMPLETE opposite of Christianity.
Lauren
2016-03-30 15:19:40 UTC
To generalize a political party can be slightly ignorant, but that's alright because I'm not here to judge anyone. Personally, I'm a republican and I don't oppose gay marriage whatsoever. It doesn't effect me nor should it effect anyone else in this world unless if they're oblivious to the true meaning of love. Just because someone belongs to a specific political party doesn't mean they all have the same views, hope this helps.
?
2016-03-28 19:32:35 UTC
Because. It's an established tradition, don't even look at religion. Look at how many indoctrinated people make it a keystone of their religion.



So just willy nilly illegally legalizing marriage for gay couples, simply because they want a tax break. Isn't justifiable when doing so potentially destabalizes every persons family who uses marriage as a keystone.



What gives the lazy cheap, just wants a tax deduction, gay groom and bride. The right to destabalize hundreds of millions of families? They don't and there for gays shouldn't be the centerpoint either. The entire lgbtq community deserves their own alternative certificate cerimony so they can get their cheap budgets their disrespectful tax deduction.
Unknown
2016-03-28 16:32:51 UTC
Why Republicans oppose gay marriage is not surprising. My answer is agreeing with religion. Our Creator Jehovah God, Instituted the marriage arrangement way before our Government and politics originated. In the bible at Genesis 2:24. It states a man will leave his father and his mother and he must stick to his wife and they must become one flesh.” The Hebrew word “wife,” according to Vine’s Expository Dictionary of Biblical Words, “connotes one who is a female human being.” Jesus confirmed that those yoked together in marriage should be “male and female.”—Matthew 19:4.



Thus, Jehovah God intended marriage to be a permanent, intimate bond between a man and a woman. Men and women are designed to complement each other so they may be capable of satisfying each other’s emotional and sexual needs and of providing children.



Cited from www.jw.org. see website for more accurate teaching.
Atsa me Atsa you?
2016-03-29 07:27:27 UTC
I am a Republican....it is NONE of my business who people love, marry!!! Matter of FACT!!!! I see more gays happier in with their partner or marriage than I see in a lot of marriages I see. Some state gays will go to hell..some also state that people that has abortion will too....REEEEALLY, why in the hell would another person be concerned about another person going to hell???? Odd, for all those against abortion and that is a LOT of people, they have not had an abortion or know of someone that has had one, their daughter, aunt...come on people, who are you kidding...this would be a much better world if some people would keep their noses out of others business, to bad if you don't like what they are doing, so long as it doesn't bring harm to others....STAY OUT OF IT!!!
Chris
2016-03-29 17:56:32 UTC
Many Republicans and right-wingers tend to be religious.



Which, in turn, usually means they reject gay marriage (some religions don't but some do).



As for why Republicans are religious, I'm not really sure.
2016-03-28 17:04:46 UTC
Some feel that it goes against their religious beliefs and not all Conservatives are bigoted like some right wing nut jobs it is just apart of their faith and some Muslims hold the same view on Gay marriage but Christians are becoming more tolerant about gay people and I have seen this and I don't hate gay people and i could care less if someone is gay and that is not to be mean, I just want them to respect my views and I respect theirs.
2016-03-29 17:11:01 UTC
The difference between Republicans and Democrats.



If a Republican doesn’t like guns, he doesn’t buy one.

If a Democrat doesn’t like guns, he wants all guns outlawed.



If a Republican is a vegetarian, he doesn’t eat meat.

If a Democrat is a vegetarian, he wants all meat products banned for everyone.



If a Republican is homosexual, he quietly leads his life.

If a Democrat is homosexual, he demands legislated respect.



If a Republican doesn’t like a talk show host, he switches channels.

Democrats demand that those they don’t like be shut down.



If a Republican is a non-believer, he doesn’t go to church.

A Democrat non-believer wants any mention of God and religion silenced.



To anger a Republican, lie to him. To anger a Democrat, tell him the truth.



If a Republican is down-and-out, he thinks about how to better his situation.

A Democrat wonders who is going to take care of him.



If a Republican decides he needs health care, he goes about shopping for it, or may choose a job that provides it.

A Democrat demands that the rest of us pay for his.



Ecclesiastes 10:2 (NIV) - "The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of the fool to the left." Thus sayeth the Lord. Amen.



Ever wonder why the mascot of the Republicans is the Mighty, and Intelligent Elephant?



While the mascot of the DemocRATS is the stupid Jackass?



It surely can't get any simpler than that.



The last four letters in American......... I Can

The last four letters in Republican........ I Can

The last four letters in Democrats......... Rats



End of lesson ! .....Test to follow on November 8, 2016.
?
2016-03-30 08:57:47 UTC
When I heard ubber Republican bill o riely advocate for gay marriage then I knew ...it was over for the hard line conservatives. Now that gay marriage is a done deal and off the political map o have started listening more ad more to what the GOP has to say. I actually like having the option of voting for fiscally conservative policies.
?
2016-03-30 10:10:04 UTC
Because they're bigots. I am a Christian, a proud Jesus Freak, and although I recognize that gay marriage is not something that God approves of, I also understand that God gave everyone free will to live their lives as they please, so why would I prevent those people from living their lives how they want just because it goes against my beliefs? Jesus also called us to love everyone with no exceptions, yet these conservatives are showing hate to people with different beliefs and sexual orientations. That's hypocritical. There are also many things in the Bible that aren't ok that happen a lot in this country, such as divorce for example, yet conservatives pick and choose what they do and do not tolerate. You can't pick and choose what you choose to uphold or ignore. Again, hypocritical.
William M
2016-03-30 07:50:48 UTC
I would argue that it discriminates against believers in the moral precepts of the torah (as opposed to its specific penal proscription), and prevents them from serving as public officers. It also has an economic impact. Many of the benefits from marriage were begun with the tacit assumption that children are being procreated naturally, and creating and portraying as morally legitimate an alternative to natural procreation may further promote the separation of sex from marriage, leading to more illegitimate births and their negative consequences. Finally the way in which gay marriage was legalized opposed Federalism by the supreme cour'ts usurping the rightful power of the states to create their own definition of marriage. This has implications that go way beyond marriage law. As gay marriage has gone up, the esteem for marriage has gone down.
?
2016-03-29 22:24:18 UTC
One of the Democratic frontrunners opposes gay marriage. I'll give you a hint, it isn't the man.



Yes it' Hrc, opposed for decades, even created and helped write laws that hurt the LGBT community. She flipped in 2011 when the numbers grew to more than 50% of American support and falsely claimed she had always supported. She "supported" it publicly on the Human Rights Campaign video.
msjinx39
2016-03-31 11:18:18 UTC
I'm a republican conservative. What people do behind closed doors is their business. However I do not agree with it being shoved down our throats that it's okay to be a gay person and be married in every freaking state. Everybody screaming right here right there what about my rights of not having to deal with that crap in my face 24/7 on my TV on the streets and buildings. We now have men dressing as women so they can go into our female bathrooms to use the bathroom and say I'm a transgender so it's okay. Not okay never okay. I have friends who are gay do you know none of them act like the way I have seen in most? Just because you decide that this is the way you want to live does not mean that everybody else has to like it and follow suit that is called life. Get over it stop being so fragile and if you don't want all this attention stop talking about it. Half of this is brought on because the offenders have to broadcast their sexuality. Don't want attention, STFU
2016-03-29 07:46:57 UTC
Why do Republicans oppose gay marriage?

Stupid question beings not all Republicans are against Gays nor " Gay Marriage " , there are gay republicans and Democrats more than likely hate it more and most than Republicans ... but Democrats PLAY IDIOT VOTERS to make them think they aren't against Gays and Homosexuality to get mroe money, power, control and votes from IDIOT PEOPLE / VOTERS, sadly , it works on the idiot voters !
Sheryl
2016-03-28 18:04:04 UTC
I feel that clinging to ancient religion(s) does have a lot to do with that stereotypical stance, as well as how those who cling to ancient traditions without FIRST translating them accurately to modern times and mores are raised to perpetuate the practice of unquestioning stagnation.



Many people seem not to understand that bibles translated pretty poorly from old languages that used words with "male and female" connotations for inanimate objects, concepts, etc and not only to describe physically male or physically female creatures, humans included. God was often referred to in a feminine sense (even sometimes in a *plural* sense - Elohim), but that apparently lost popularity by the time of the King James version. Since illiteracy and lack of education were rife back then (wow, kind of hard to imagine it being worse than it is today, huh) those that had authority over the translations made the final decisions about which sense was correct.



"Wife" never meant someone specifically, biologically female. It meant someone whose body belonged to their husband, like a cow would belong to its owner, to do with what they wished. Of course, going back that far, the context of overpopulation was hardly a concern (quite the opposite) and it probably wouldn't make much sense from a survival-of-the-species standpoint for a culture to encourage same-sex unions of any kind.



The reproduction argument is moot now, whether you are a Republican anti-gay or a Democratic one. The number of people on the planet is staggering. Adoption agencies can tell you better than I could how many children are waiting for loving homes, and folks like my great-grandfather might have a word of warning for those that reproduce madly in hopes that when they are old and infirm one of their progeny will take them in rather than sending them to an I'm-almost-dead rental. One could say that any rise in same-sex relationships is to be applauded, because at least any children generated in that setting will not be "accidental" and "burdensome" or abandoned to "the system."



If they want the validity of marriage and whatever tax breaks or mental satisfaction or what have you comes of that little piece of paper, it doesn't really make much sense to stop them. Honestly, even in the Christian rhetoric, if God did not want men with men, why would s/He have placed the prostate gland right THERE? :P It isn't so you love burritos at both ends of the digestive tract, that's for sure.



Bottom line though, after all the rationalizing is done, why do Republicans oppose gay marriage? - Because they can. Trolls don't need a reason to troll... especially when it keeps the focus shifted away from irrational tax breaks, overspending on a military that could lose a fraction of its budget and see vastly improved infrastructure and education, and pushing for less regulation... not even going into the greater earning disparity 'pubs seem to support. =/
phillipk_1959
2016-03-29 15:27:17 UTC
Not a Supporter of 'gay marriage'. Government should issue a 'civil union license'. Marriage IS a Religious thing. If your religion has a 'gay marriage' provision then so be it. But the demands others violate their religion for you is unreasonable (exception for taking life of others).
2016-03-31 03:09:30 UTC
Republicans are opposed to anyone having a good time and being happy. They revel in terrible marriages. They enjoy seeing men and women arguing during their marriage, especially about money.
?
2016-03-29 09:46:43 UTC
Because they have always been the party of hatred and have opposed gay marriage and civil rights since they came into being.



Democrats, on the other hand, have always supported gay marriage.
?
2016-03-29 04:09:46 UTC
Because most Republicans are dedicated Christians who wish to abide to biblical principles such as the traditional family unit and they want to preserve this. However, there are many libertarian Republicans who believe that marriage should be privatised and that the state should have no affairs in these issues since its a private decision. They also believe that this would protect religious liberty as well as conservative Christians don't have to serve them.
Martin
2016-03-28 18:19:54 UTC
Good question. I think a lot of it has to do with the Conservative ideology of keeping with tradition and the tried and true if you will. Legalizing same sex marriage deviates from tradition and goes against many Conservatives' religious beliefs. It's a very backwards way of thinking and seriously impedes progress in this country. A GOP controlled House is like a mini Dark Ages in my opinion.
?
2016-04-01 08:49:02 UTC
They all don't, nor do "they" all oppose abortion, or Muslim immigration. It's the media and the Politicians that have tried hard the last 8 years to polarize this nation. Reason: To make it easier to push the progressive then socialist agenda. Divide and conquer. They are working hard to reduce and eliminate old values, ideas, morals,character, religion, and work epic. The very things that built this country. Object: The minions will all be same. A non thinking, non threatening drones, dependent total on the government. New Flash ! We are about 80% there ! 1/2 on welfare another 1/3 work for the government.......
Gary
2016-03-29 15:23:56 UTC
Im a Democrat I oppose it because marriage should be between a man and a women!
?
2016-03-29 13:32:59 UTC
They never invite me to their weddings . I only oppose the ones that do not have an open bar at the reception or cupcakes instead of cake. That means none of them. Gay people know how to throw a party .Jesus said the religion should be kept separate and the kingdom of Heaven is not of this world . Someone I know refused to attend an infant baptism out of principles . It was his grandson. It was a stupid decision on his part and I went but my kid got baptized when she wanted to , around fifteen , I think. We may not agree exactly on things but we can still show love to each other .
coffee
2016-03-29 02:21:37 UTC
Actually I'm liberal but I do not believe in gay marriage. I have about half a dozen friends who are gay, but sorry I believe a marriage is between a man and a woman period.
2016-03-29 10:51:03 UTC
I'm a republican, but I think gay is ok. I don't oppose gay marriage.
?
2016-03-29 06:41:01 UTC
Because they read an ancient book that was written to lead a tribe that broke away from Egypt (followers of Akhenaten's religion) in their war of conquest against a peaceful nations known as Canaan.



This book outlawed homosexuality because in order for the small tribe to have a hope against the more numerous Canaanites they needed to increase their numbers and gay sex doesn't produce offspring.



For reasons lost to the dusts of time, this bronze age book is still followed in modern times, even though though it started off as an instructions manual for how to beat the Canaanites and the Canaanites no longer exist.
sophieb
2016-03-31 03:13:41 UTC
it's all about people and not about parties. It depends on if you have religion or not.



In America our government itself does not get into religion so Obama allowed certain gay rights (people rights, nothing to do with religion). Bill Clinton allowed open gays into the military and now says he's sorry he allowed that. But know that other countries do not allow gay anything and in fact get rid of gays. So lots of religions don't believe in gay. So don't pick on republicans.
2016-03-29 10:14:08 UTC
I'm a Democrat, and I'm opposed to gay marriage due to my religious beliefs. Democrats are not synonymous with liberals and Republicans are not synonymous with conservatives.
Michelle M
2016-03-30 20:26:09 UTC
Marriage isn't about the couple, at lest not the state's involvement in licensing marriage. It's about providing the optimal environment for children -- a mom and pop household, where the parents are in a committed situation that is hard to get out of.
2016-03-29 12:21:20 UTC
I'm a Republican who supports gay marriage maybe because I'm not religious and i also don't care about marriage that much.
?
2016-03-31 02:15:43 UTC
Quite simply, the idea of marriage is procreation, that is how a civilization survives. Gays do not procreate so serves no useful purpose in society. The nature of a human is to survive, in fact that is the nature of all animals. Abortion, like gay marriage is not productive to the sustainment of our culture.



While marriage is mentioned in the bible (many times) even an atheist couple can procreate while the a gay couple can only spread diseases. Look at how AIDS has spread from gays to ordinary people

In 2010 77.7% of all reported AIDS cases among men were men that were having gay sex. Gay men accounted for the biggest majority of all AIDS cases.



In 2008, men who have sex with men accounted for 63% of primary and secondary syphilis cases in the United States. These people often are diagnosed with other bacterial STDs, including chlamydia and gonorrhea infections.



Gay and bisexual men can be infected with HPV (Human Papillomavirus), the most common STD in the United States. Some types of HPV cause genital and anal warts and some can lead to the development of anal and oral cancer. Men who have sex with men are 17 times more likely to develop anal cancer than heterosexual men. Men who are HIV-positive are even more likely than those who are uninfected to develop anal cancer.
?
2016-03-28 21:31:01 UTC
I oppose gay marriage.
2016-03-30 21:38:55 UTC
Because gay marriage is wrong. It's immoral. It's vulgar. And it's an abomination against God.



And people who embrace that lifestyle got no respect for traditional/godly values (whatever you want to call it). Homosexuality is partly to blame (actually mostly to blame) for the collapse of the family unit.



Marriage is HOLY. It consists of a covenant between one man and one woman. That's how God created it. Any kind of misuse of sex and marriage is sin. And speaking of sex, it is supposed to be in the marriage between one man and one woman. Anything else (even imitating porno-scenes from X-rated movies) is wrong. The misuse of sex and the misuse of marriage is a dangerous thing. And those who misuse them will, unfortunately, suffer the consequences.
?
2016-03-29 13:28:23 UTC
Because God made marriage for 1 man an 1 woman
myrrdin emrys
2016-03-28 15:47:41 UTC
because the republican base, and therefor republican politicians, are overwhelmingly fundamentalist christian dominionists.



from my link:



"In 2005, Clarkson enumerated the following characteristics shared by all forms of dominionism:[33]

Dominionists celebrate Christian nationalism, in that they believe that the United States once was, and should once again be, a Christian nation. In this way, they deny the Enlightenment roots of American democracy.

Dominionists promote religious supremacy, insofar as they generally do not respect the equality of other religions, or even other versions of Christianity.

Dominionists endorse theocratic visions, insofar as they believe that the Ten Commandments, or "biblical law," should be the foundation of American law, and that the U.S. Constitution should be seen as a vehicle for implementing Biblical principles."



... and "In many ways, Dominionism is more a political phenomenon than a theological one. It cuts across Christian denominations, from stern, austere sects to the signs-and-wonders culture of modern megachurches. Think of it like political Islamism, which shapes the activism of a number of antagonistic fundamentalist movements, from Sunni Wahabis in the Arab world to Shiite fundamentalists in Iran.





go ahead and read the Bible... i have.



if the Republican party is ever able to achieve complete hegemony in America, they WILL impose a theocracy so repressive and brutal, America will make ISIS or the Taliban look like Mister Rogers' Neighborhood.







edit @ Jeffrey:



"fear monger"? i don't think so. you should listen to our local "christian" radio station - it's 94.5 WDAC. if some of the things they broadcast don't chill your bones to the marrow, you're either one of them or you're being deliberately stupid....



out of 475 elective offices in and for my county, 473 of them are held by republicans and the crappola i hear coming out of their mouths is a verbartim regurgitation of the more extreme stuff that station broadcasts.

.
2016-08-12 00:47:35 UTC
yeah, i don't understand much either... bit your stereotyping republicans... not all of them believe in no gay marriage, only some of them... i think the biggest reason people think they have the right to butt in on gay marriage and make it a problem is 'cause of being brainwashed... this includes being brainwashed by some religious "rules", the past or just quite plainly other people... some people follow the discrimination that had affected us and therefore continues to do so... we are still in the process of erasing discrimination of all types...
Kathryn
2016-03-28 12:51:51 UTC
Not all Republicans oppose gay marriage.



Those who do look to the Bible and what the Bible says.
viablerenewables
2016-03-29 10:41:10 UTC
Gay marriage does affects both non-religious and religious people! 1) LEFTIST are very legalistic. Example Baker in Washington & Wedding Photographer in New Mexico, the LEFT in effect said participate or loss your business. 2) The original lawsuit was over MONEY not LOVE. Tax, Employment, & Social Security Law. I'd say Love of Money.

Personally I don't think married people should get special privileges for signing a piece of paper either, but before I was born & could vote they got them.



Edit: If you thumps down this answer please educate me with a comment. I have explained my reasoning.
Colton
2016-03-29 06:02:08 UTC
I can see from many of the answers here that there are a lot of people that don't understand that homosexuality is natural, just an anomaly of nature. Homosexuality has always existed, always will, and also exists in other species. No species has ever died out and become extinct from the small percentage of homosexuals. No heterosexual should feel threatened by a homosexual, either. Fear of the unfamiliar is a horrible thing - educate yourselves and open your minds and hearts.
<333
2016-03-29 16:56:41 UTC
The further we stray from the bible's law as a country the more things fall apart. The reason laws are set up are because God cares. For example, not having pre marital sex would prevent unwanted births, STD's, and over help peoples well being. This is another law that protects us. And we may not understand it but we are not to lean on our own understanding but on Gods's. Hope that helps.
tom
2016-03-28 14:35:33 UTC
I'm starting to think modern conservatives oppose happiness and prosperity in general.



The party has fallen a LONG way since Reagan.
2016-03-28 21:20:03 UTC
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, (‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭6‬:‭9‬ KJV)





Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination. (‭Leviticus‬ ‭18‬:‭22‬ KJV)



For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: (‭Romans‬ ‭1‬:‭26‬ KJV)



It's actually all over the Bible, but you would have to read it to know what it says. The reason Christian Republicans oppose same-sex marriage is because God clearly states that it is an abomination to Him. One can agree to disagree, but it is obvious that God says that it is sin and against nature.
jason w
2016-03-28 10:32:01 UTC
Religion
oli
2016-03-29 06:44:52 UTC
I disagree with marriage full stop.



But I'm guessing that gay people having a secure, loving relationship means that God will fly down on a magic carpet and zap us all whilst athiest start ******* animals and murder becomes legalised 😂😂😂



Religious nuts
2016-03-28 11:35:14 UTC
Its not treally about gay marriage,its about the DESTRUCTION of the family unit on which society is based.Wherewill it end ? We already allow people to marry cars and houses (in Mass. for instance,the state is not allowed to define what a marriage is) so how can we legally say you can't marry a 10 yr old girl (and her goat) or 6 sisters and 3 brothers and a bicycle? The problem is that once you get outside of the biblical definition of marriage THERE IS NO STOPPING POINT.



WOMAN MARRIES HER DOG: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/woman-marries-dog-totally-b-h-article-1.1717772
standsay
2016-03-30 10:56:09 UTC
Because many republicans are Christians and the bible clearly says homosexuality is a sin.The bible says If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them."

1 Corinthians 6:9-10, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God.



Marriage is not a right.
thegreatone
2016-03-30 22:01:53 UTC
No one opposes gay marriage.



In fact, everyone celebrates it.
?
2016-03-30 09:51:45 UTC
Republicans tend to be self-serving, bigoted Christians who use their opposition to gay marriage as a way to conceal their hatred.



Christianity is the root of all evil, not homosexuality, as we are not the ones who had deprived innocent people of their rights for years.
2016-03-28 12:22:02 UTC
Republicans do that because it's how they maintain their "cover" and remain in their little crowded "closet"! The "religious" angle is nothing more than an excuse. The government CANNOT legisltate morals! Besides, our 1str Amendment of the Bill of Rights of our Constitution demands a separation of Chruch and Government; and they KNOW this but play the game to appease the closeted, drooling, loony-goofy religious fanatics and zealots.
Swaggy Gal
2016-03-28 16:26:59 UTC
Because it's night right and it could affect the future and people around us so yes it is some what a impact on us.



and the bible says right in Romans 1:26-27 that it is shameful for same sex marriage.
Big Lance!
2016-03-31 12:53:20 UTC
Well actually lots of democrats men women republicans blacks whites Hispanics all walks of life oppose gay marriage. Gay marriage is just silly its just political bs hyped up w all the rhetoric and homophobic terms to label one as hitler if u disagree or ur a folk hero on facebook if u do agree but most like me i dont care its not of interest to me. One thing i dont get is i sleep w women date women but the last thing i would do is shove that in somebodys face day n nite and demand somebody accept me and have a war pack of nifty words like intolerant narrow racist bigot etc in fact i wouldnt want anyone to ever want to be forced to hear about my sexual preferences and be forced to agree w it? Thats the part thats mind blowing why gay folks want to identify with sexual behavior as if its theyre entire identity! I met a cool taxi driver the other day im white hes black we had a cool conversation etc. I kinda figured he was gay etc who cares but why did he stop to tell me? Ugh
sam
2016-03-28 18:04:45 UTC
98% of the time. Right wing conservatives dislike gay marriage because 1) it goes against their horribly bigoted and misogynistic faith. 2) they just simply won't make an effort to understand that love is love
?
2016-03-28 19:42:44 UTC
Why do liberals preach over and over again this garbage that if you don't support LGBT rights, you are automatically labeled a "fasict" and "worse than Hitler".



I believe in TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE. I don't think it's right for two people of the same sex to marry and have sex. That's called having a mental disorder. and that disorder is known as LIBERALISM.



Cruz was right when he called the LGBT legalization last year "some of the darkest days in U.S. history".



Liberalism is a mental disorder.
2016-03-28 08:30:58 UTC
Largely because too many reps are hypocrites who selectively pound the bible to selfishly please their predisposition.

They hate the poor people. The reps blocked an increase in the minimum wage even though Jesus preached to help the poor.

The reps have repeatedly attacked the ACA w/o a viable alternate plan to replace it with even though Jesus preached to heal the sick.

The bible denounces homosexuality ... not that's a morsel the homophobic righties can sink their teeth into.

The following is an bible thumper's position on how the bible condemns homosexuality ...



http://www.bible.ca/s-homo=sin.htm



Incidentally, the bible condones slavery too ...



"However, you may purchase male or female slaves from among the foreigners who live among you. You may also purchase the children of such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your land. You may treat them as your property, passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance. You may treat your slaves like this, but the people of Israel, your relatives, must never be treated this way. (Leviticus 25:44-46 NLT)"



It also condones misogyny. For being such a good book it has a share of evil.



If we separate church and state a lot of conflict dissipates.
Carpathian
2016-03-31 11:53:13 UTC
Remember Nicodemus a lawyer trying to find out how a person can be born again. Republicans carry the sentence of guilt because being under the law they try to find a middle ground on all types of issues. While grace by faith it s the righteousness of a person that leads him to be free from the law. In other words all politicians work out their righteousness with high expectation as an obligation to uphold the law because the law sustains them. Contrary to grace through faith depends solely on Gods will and His Son creative power to resolve the issues of the world.
?
2016-03-29 16:06:18 UTC
The union of two same sex couples negatively effects al of us, because, combined with abortion it decreases the future population of the planet, where are the brains coming from that will provide us with the solution to Global Warming? which also theretains the future of the human race. True, same sex unions can adopt but there's is really a single parent family and eighty percent of the population of our prisons are produced by such family's.
?
2016-03-30 18:56:49 UTC
The Best of My Knowledge is Marriage Is Between amen and awomen to Live Union for Future .
?
2016-03-31 08:44:15 UTC
Muslims oppose this, so why do they not go after that bunch? Chicken s*it! That's why! Saudi Arabia announced that they will execute all Gays & Lesbians and in the media you can hear crickets!
Robert
2016-03-30 09:22:40 UTC
REALLY then tell me WHY are libs so opposed to the religious freedoms act which allows clergy to REFUSE to marry gays when in opposing their faith... now tell me again how gay marriage is not imposing on MY Church??
Erica
2016-03-29 22:06:12 UTC
Ignorance
2016-03-28 11:19:18 UTC
I don't. But I do oppose forcing Christians to participate against their religious views.
2016-03-29 12:57:12 UTC
Republicans seem to oppose everything nowadays.
?
2016-03-29 15:04:52 UTC
Last I checked you can oppose anything you want to in this country in a peaceful manner. if people are opposing it in a peaceful way what difference does it make to you and how does it affect you?
2016-03-28 19:10:35 UTC
Turn the question around. Why do gays want a government piece of paper to certify their relationship? Money of course. Benefits of course. Tax breaks of course.

Thy want the benefits meant for raising kids. Yes, the same rules are taken advantage of by some heteros so the laws need to be changed to be oriented around raising kids,
leanne
2016-03-29 07:45:48 UTC
Well, republicans are usually (but not always) conservative. Conservatives usually like to stick to what has been known to work out in the past ( the old "tried and true"), rather than try something new. They will usually only try something new if they have tried everything that has been known to work out, and nothing is working.
Pablo
2016-03-31 09:41:41 UTC
It is a stupid battle. Any individual can draw up a contract and the law will support that contract. Marriage is just a word That religious zealots feel they have a right to define.
Benito
2016-03-28 22:59:58 UTC
It's gay.
Jessica
2016-03-31 10:03:14 UTC
I believe Leviticus 18:22 says something like a man shall not lie with another man as if he would a woman. Different versions of the Bible word it differently. Im not saying my opinion because most of u wont like what I have to say but u asked for what Jesus said about it so there u go.:)
2016-03-28 20:02:45 UTC
Not all Republicans are like that. Some are, but they really don't have much to back themselves up
Little Ms Sunshine
2016-03-29 11:13:46 UTC
I believe that the people who oppose gay marriage do so because it would validate what they consider to be the most dreaded part of themselves, their sexual urges.

To them, people are basically "bad" and getting worse.

Where most Democrats at least want to believe that people are basically "good" and getting better.
2016-11-06 08:05:44 UTC
i am not a republican cause i don't follow politics nor do i care about them... but i do oppose gay marriage...
?
2016-03-28 12:09:34 UTC
I am an atheist and I am against gay marriage... it's a deviation and the ones who are homosexual are... come on are suffering from psychological problems... I mean... at least it must not be considered marriage...
David H.
2016-03-28 20:31:31 UTC
What about older couples (older than 45) who get married and can't have children, or younger couples who simply DON'T WANT to have children?

And THOSE marriages shouldn't count, either?? smh
?
2016-03-28 15:28:03 UTC
There is a way to get all people to accept homosexuals . Homosexuals could become more educated to accept themselves. The men homosexuals could learn to accept the girl homosexuals and vice versa . After they become more aware of the benefits that could be derived by coming together in meaningful and loving relationships they could marry and raise families like other normal humans. If they will stop discriminating against each other then no one else will either.
?
2016-03-30 16:41:59 UTC
I'm a religious Republican......to answer your question....I have no idea. Makes no sense to me either. But to be honest I prefer both religion and the republican side more than the other. I actually respect the other sides though. They have good points, and they are good people. I just prefer republican. DOESN'T MEAN THEY'RE WRONG! PLEASE GET THAT!
2016-03-29 02:38:05 UTC
Because it's already been legalized nation wide for almost a year now.



Only thing "g*y" marriage will do is increase divorce rate and encourage unhealthy lifestyle.



😆
ausblue
2016-04-01 18:11:11 UTC
i dont care if gay people marry..i went to a neighbours marriage .......



but i can understand governments cause gay marriage really is silly cause marriage is for making a family and they cant make a family........ and goverment is probably wise enough to know the gays just want same rights as normanl people from government .regarding money etc
great knight
2016-03-28 16:48:19 UTC
Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed. Jesus loves you. Jesus Christ is the truth. Read Romans chapter 5 and 8. Read John chapter 1 and 3. "And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,

And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."- the Word of God. https://youtu.be/fCnQQLUJHb8

Study the Word of God. Read James chapter 4.

"Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God."- the Word of God. Jesus Christ is the truth, the way, and the life! Jesus loves you.
flysnapper27
2016-03-30 15:04:38 UTC
It's ironic isn't it? One of the pillars of the party is to have less government control and yet they want to have full control over a woman's reproductive decisions as well as what someone does in their own bedroom.



Hypocrisy at it's finest.
?
2016-04-01 01:34:07 UTC
Im against marriage licenses in general. Why should anyone be forced to pay the government and ask permission?



Freedom
2016-03-29 05:04:59 UTC
There is no such thing. Homohookups ain't marriage. Better ask why they want to call it marriage, then beware of what else the left is manipulating you to believe.
?
2016-04-02 04:10:15 UTC
Social conservatives would say marriage is only between a man and a woman, just telling you how they define the union.
retert
2016-03-28 18:17:06 UTC
Because when children see two men kissing it can ruin their mentality. It's not safe. And noone is born gay, it's a choice, and governments buy scientists who "prove" that being gay is natural. Because if there's tolerance in the country then there's less figths, trouble etc.

P.S. if you hate your mom then please downvote.
Trilobiteme
2016-03-28 09:25:21 UTC
God says not to be sexual immoral







Hebrews 13:4 New International Version



Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
2016-03-29 03:46:12 UTC
they want to keep all the gay men for themselves



stopping marriage reduces the competition and means more single gay men for republicans to have sex with
2016-03-28 14:54:34 UTC
Crazy
heyheyhey
2016-03-29 14:41:47 UTC
You're right. They want to interfere in people's personal life. They are a bunch of people that has nothing better to do
CassandraofTroy Philosopher
2016-03-28 10:41:49 UTC
The US constitution gives the states the right to regulate marriage. The Supreme Court ignored the constitution and the will of the majority. That's a big deal.
Dee
2016-03-29 04:48:26 UTC
Because they're inhumane, self righteous, pieces of trash who really believe they're "chosen" to delegate to the World about right and wrong. I say ignore them because they're going away soon enough. Hope this helps? Good luck
2016-03-31 22:19:38 UTC
societal interest in perpetuating its numbers historically that is,means a formal tip o the hat to the most efficient ever rearing unit called the fam ill yieee,= man dame & the younguns they hope to produce/

gays want to live longterm as spouses/ go head legal agreements vis a vis property,that can be done, the blue ribbon seal or approval,goes to the main and wombmain.
?
2016-03-28 18:25:08 UTC
Some people feel like gay people aren't pro life..
?
2016-03-29 08:36:53 UTC
I dont oppose it. I do however oppose gays suing because a church refuses to marry them.
haley
2016-03-28 19:57:42 UTC
Most republicans are conservitive and Christians. And especially if you're Christian, it says in the Bible, people are suppose to marry the opposite sex. So it goes against their beliefs.
Joseph hola
2016-03-30 18:21:59 UTC
Christ has healed people who were gay into being straight. Yes it's mostly a religious reason.
?
2016-03-29 23:44:07 UTC
It's disgusting.
Some Random Guy
2016-03-31 11:09:45 UTC
If the criteria for allowing something is "It has no impact on you, so what difference does it make" where does that take us?



Should people be allowed to marry dogs? Lawn chairs? Some digital avatar on a computer? It has no impact on you..
?
2016-03-29 20:31:09 UTC
No one can because the fruits or vegetables would come out or grow up according to the seed. Not according to our choice or law. Thus since began or created the human being God has insisted to think before to begin because we sense (wisdom)
2016-03-28 21:44:13 UTC
Marriage suppose to be between a man and a woman! there is a reason why god created two genders.
?
2016-03-30 22:56:08 UTC
They DO? Wow! Suddenly I'm getting the urge to vote for Trump. LOL! Just kidding. I don't vote.
badmofaux
2016-03-29 15:38:54 UTC
One word answer: bigotry.



There are more nuanced answers which circle around that drain. But, really, they're just doing logical backflips to avoid the honest answer. Which is, bluntly, bigotry.
?
2016-03-29 13:47:05 UTC
Them opposing it doesn't have a impact on you so get over it yourself.
?
2016-03-28 12:00:37 UTC
Most of them it's because of how in the book of Romans in the Bible it is against it. My mom is a conservative Republican and this is her belief.
tobfran
2016-03-28 14:16:18 UTC
Gay marriage demeans the sanctity of marriage.
Daniel
2016-03-28 20:00:51 UTC
because it diverts attention from the real problems. Both democrat and republican reps know they cannot

make it in the real world so they create a fantasy one for republicans its birth control and for democrats its gun control. Note the word CONTROL
?
2016-03-28 12:10:59 UTC
"Don't ask, Don't tell." A piece of paper makes NOT a marriage. Queers know that, they just use the act to promote their un-natural acts and lifestyle.
2016-03-28 03:05:13 UTC
Because a loving god demands hatred for laws that would be considered obsolete except for their biased views that parents and clergy have passed to them.

10 commandments-old testament- totally applies

Laws of mark- new testament- totally applies.

Laws of leviticus that dont have to do with gays- old testament- totally dont apply because it's inconvenient

Love one another as i have loved you- Jesus's only commandment for the new testament- only applies to people i feel it does as long as i hate gay marriage and use it as a guise for salvation.



Remember: if they didn't have someone telling them what to do they're the perfect representation of their faith.

Sheep.

Dim witted animals.
Rupee
2016-03-31 01:44:53 UTC
Same reason people don't like their neighbors to have trashy houses. It reflects badly on the whole neighborhood.
2016-03-30 09:24:11 UTC
Cause they do not know the history of marriage and think its some purely holy thing.
Gwenyth
2016-03-28 16:23:12 UTC
Some but not all republicans choose to interpret the bible that way. However, the bible also says, love your neighbor as yourself, so it is merely an interpretation, in my opinion.
2016-03-29 04:57:47 UTC
Republicans are against almost everything, unless it is cruel or makes the 1% richer.
Gerry G
2016-03-29 06:17:41 UTC
If it is actual marriage, then the union is between one man and one woman. That is by definition.
ilshdw
2016-03-28 18:44:43 UTC
Because gay marriage is wrong...
?
2016-03-28 19:32:43 UTC
one in ten guys are gay. The Last Supper had 13 guys. Think about it.
2016-03-28 19:42:20 UTC
Well, let me tell you tell you the OPEN SECRET of how the two parties work



1. Republicans (AKA "conservatives") want to keep it THE WAY IT HAS BEEN (conserving it as is)

2. Democrats(AKA "liberals" or "progressives") want to CHANGE things



Its really as simple as that
2016-03-28 14:27:46 UTC
I don't know. But don't listen to people who say it's because of religion. God wants his people to be happy, and accepted the way they are. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
?
2016-03-30 16:29:06 UTC
Because when two men make a baby, there is a lot of hair on it, and it becomes too masculine because of all the male DNA.
?
2016-03-27 22:29:25 UTC
Because it's not just gay marriage, it's same sex "marriage" and that means that any same sex couple - two brothers, for example, or a mother and daughter - can get "married." And once you open up the legal definition of marriage how can you justify limiting it to just two people?
?
2016-03-29 20:38:11 UTC
Good question. But the Bible says that one man and one woman can come together and join under the witness of LORD. And also because... politic opinion!
2016-03-29 17:27:37 UTC
Because homosexuality is against man's nature.
2016-03-31 02:08:02 UTC
Republitards take a wide stance in airports
2016-03-28 16:16:31 UTC
Because they're republicans. Which means they hate everything except bullshit.
?
2016-03-31 13:37:38 UTC
Because we like to drink booze and not get sick,and have the right to refuse anybody ,just to get along caldoggy and go forward with time.
2016-03-30 23:22:56 UTC
Why do liberals oppose the death penalty for guilty serial killers, but are for killing innocent unborn children?
lindaz
2016-03-31 01:27:22 UTC
Hitler's genocide had no effect on my life either. It doesn't mean it should be ignored.
2016-03-28 10:51:13 UTC
I myself am neither against nor support it.



God forbid if I had to get tied down with such nonsense and gutter politics.
Stormy
2016-03-28 18:32:52 UTC
Because it has no place in a civilized society



Plain and simple
Willie
2016-03-29 10:18:27 UTC
Democrats oppose them too, but they are too chicken to admit it.
Andrew
2016-04-01 06:48:32 UTC
No marriage didn't play into it, but, wait for it, polygamy did!!!
Blue-Eyed Soul Jim
2016-04-01 14:01:19 UTC
They're homophobes
John
2016-03-28 07:24:30 UTC
Neither does a bank theft and they oppose that too. What's you point?
?
2016-03-31 01:39:17 UTC
They haven't changes their mind
2016-03-28 18:35:31 UTC
They think it's gross. They think it's unnatural. They think it shouldn't be rationalized or given any sense of normalcy.
Naguru
2016-03-30 03:58:38 UTC
Republicans idea is "All is well that ends well", if it leads to a happy life.
2016-03-31 06:09:13 UTC
Because they don't want to come out of the closet.
?
2016-03-28 15:33:32 UTC
Why should I have to agree with it if it has no impact on me? And in regards to the Bible, Jesus was an orthodox Jew, and believed in the Bible. Homosexuality is forbidden by the Bible.
?
2016-03-29 15:34:55 UTC
The same reason they oppose abortion. They like control.
?
2016-03-31 09:41:45 UTC
Gotta reflect conservatism.
Shrek
2016-03-29 00:03:46 UTC
Haven't visited them yet m8
?
2016-04-01 10:34:51 UTC
Simply because it's wrong
Veronica
2016-03-28 11:35:26 UTC
I personally think it's sickening
Riley
2016-03-30 20:20:56 UTC
God is Jesus. God said homosexuality is wrong. Marriage is a Christian value to us
jacob f
2016-03-29 08:00:15 UTC
We have to see you in public. How does that not affect us especially with our kids. I don't want my kids to get messed up because of you.
Freddie
2016-03-28 00:50:17 UTC
They are opposed to true love. Republicans just mistake love for lust. Nearly all pedophiles are conservatives and republicans. Tells you everything.
Clay
2016-03-30 09:22:55 UTC
Because they dont want a change in society
karen
2016-03-31 12:37:32 UTC
there are several republican office holders who don't oppose it. and there are some democrats who do.
Ramen
2016-03-28 12:23:10 UTC
They do not oppose, they tolerate until God destroys the group.
?
2016-03-30 00:31:02 UTC
Its is Against the rules of Society.
Damien
2016-03-29 12:14:15 UTC
its cause muh reilgion say it be wrong and i cant have gayness all around me in everyday society. and what about muh boy? that dumb cluck will think its okay to be gay when he see two men holding hands in tuh restaurant.
(A)
2016-03-28 10:16:15 UTC
The Bible teachings do not approve of gay activities.
2016-03-28 15:01:01 UTC
The only so-called "conservatives" I know that want to butt into the rights of people that want to marry, do so because they think its icky
2016-03-28 17:52:09 UTC
Religion mostly
TJ12
2016-03-29 05:12:35 UTC
American Conservative here! Supports all human, adult marriage. Did I just blow your mind?
2016-03-28 13:07:43 UTC
Gay marriage threatens the very Foundation of our Republic. This is because gay marriage is an Abomination a sin. Is even a greater sin than adultery and fornication. The only sex sin worse than gay marriage is marriage to animals or children. Mankind was not meant to have sex with animals or children. Will all the gays to marry that means that we will have to allow people to marry animals and children if that happens we can have an animal or a child in the White House who could become president. Do you want a dog for president? Do you want a gay man for president? Do you want a kid for president? No. None of those would be a good president we need a strong white man who loves Jesus and fears God to be our president. Look at what happened to America when we put a black man as president and now we're going to put a woman as president. When we had the black man president the whole country became the ghetto. People lost their jobs everybody got on unemployment the economy went the ship because we got a black president every state that elects a black politician every city that Alexa Black Mirror if fails goes bankrupt crashes. The reason why God made the white man in His image. Because of white man is a superior man and then the Asian man at the under man of the white man and all Races come to load those two. The black man is the bottom man race or maybe the Australian man is the bottom and race Aborigines. Native Americans was the noble Savage Race. The Ainu and Persians were the last race of white men in Asia. North Indian and Arab maybe a white man too. I remember the ancient Egyptians Redmond but the movie show him as a white man or black man but they were of Redman. The greatest civilization ever was founded by white people in was called the Roman Empire. It was stronger than any other Empire before or after it because it was ruled 100% by white men for a 7000 years. Nobody could be wrong not even the Chinese or the Arabs and even the Persians try to conquer Rome but Persia was too far away to fight Rome. 71 Romans and Greeks went to India they beat the India and conquered India and then came back with the gold thing they had all the wine in it and it was some kind of relic of Jesus Jesus the nicest dear penis.. a Chevy. And then when they went to Mexico they made it into Latin America because Watson was the language of the Romans boats but then they turned it into Spanish. And the Spanish word from Latin America and they were really calling Mexicans and other races and then they came to Spain and turns staying until another Mexico. And the Philippines is like some hybrid race of white Hispanic and Asian. The Philippines women are the prettiest in the world probably. The Chinese women are pretty too and so are the Japanese. Ideally we should have a white man president with the Asian woman wife. And not a gay man in the White House pier. And no dogs in the white house because we have a dog in the White House that means a dog can become president if the president dies. A note to order in the white house because of the children is in the White House that children could become the president the president dies and we know children can't make good decisions because look at what children do today. They're whining and title little brats they can't stand to go without their iPhone or iPad. My grandson has all the video games at the store and he still doesn't have enough. He has the Playstation Xbox the Nintendo thing and even the new Sega console. He plays the Dreamcast all day and this came on there's call Sonic he is all the Sonic games on his game consoles and he has Mario and Pokemon. Plays Halo plays hack any place Soul Calibur he plays RuneScape he plays War of Warcraft he plays Starcraft your place destiny he play all these other games like Street Fighter and Samurai shodown. I see him play all these games he's got like 200 games or something for every system even got systems like the play games that are flat games instead of 3D games. I like the game says daddy played does mama play the games to whistle 50. His mom pays all the games with them like she's five years old or something is she watches cartoons even when he's not there. oh Chevy. I'm then when they went to Mexico they made it until I 10 America because Ladson was the language the Roman spoke but then they turned it in the Spanish. And the Spanish or from Ladson America and they were really call light Mexicans another race this and then they came to Spain and turned Spain until another Mexico. And the Philippines is like some hybrid race of white *** panic and Asian. The Philippines women are the prettiest in the world probably. The Chinese women are pretty to a solar the Japanese. Ideally we should have a white man president with the Asian woman wife. And not a game man in the white House.. And no dogs in the white House because we have a dog and the white House that means a dog can become president if the president dies. I know children the white House cuz of the children as in the white House of Children could become the president the present dies and we know children can't make good decisions because look at with children do today. There whiny and title little brats the can't stand the goal without their iPhone or iPad. My grandson has all the video games at the store any still doesn't have enough. He has the PlayStation Xbox the Nintendo thing and even the new Sega Council. He pays that Dreamcast all day and this game on their is called sonic he is all these son at games on his game console then he has Mario and pokey man. Please halo place Tacony plays so Calvary plays runescape it plays or Warcraft he. His mom does watch Steven universe with his dad and the kid doesn't watch it with the latest watch it on their own like they're the kids and I don't understand that. It's like they watch the cartoons and they can watch the live action shows and plays nothing but video games all day. That is why I think we should vote for Donald Trump because he's a strong present who make America great again and build a giant wall to keep the Mexicans out because of the Mexicans come in it'll destroy our country. And Donald Trump will go after Isis and every bad guy in the world you better believe it. Donald Trump is it going to be the president because he has the biggest dick of all the Republicans. If you didn't have such a nice dick how would he get that wife of his? I mean I take Viagra every time I go to make love in. It works but I wish you would be better if it was bigger I would get all the babes. Does everybody want to vote for the Jewish socialist or the lion Clinton woman power? Why would you vote for Hillary Clinton Bernie Sanders when you could vote for Donald Trump? The president and his own campaign no president has ever had enough money the phone is own campaign. Sobo down Trump make America great again Beard I gotta go play Bingo. Going to the lodge. Be back at 5. You know you know I know I'm going to the grocery store don't you be careless and more groceries. I'll get the groceries don't worry guess I'll get peanut butter. You're going to get milk and soda. What kind of ribs you want? Okay I'll go get that I'll be back by 7 if if I go to a store I love you too. Okay okay so what was I saying? Vote for Donald Trump because I don't trust them to be the only good president you can select. If you want for anyone else will get a tax penalty by Donald Trump. Don't vote for the Socialist so take all your money away and give it to the black people who don't do anything. Deauville for Hillary Clinton children's lied to you all day. After Cruise he's just as bad as Hillary Clinton Ted Cruz lies all the time. In case I don't know where you want to go. Remember Kasich he said he want to build an aircraft carrier in Wyoming how do you build an aircraft carrier in the middle of nowhere with no water we know there's no ocean and Wyoming and there's no lotion Wisconsin There's No ocean in any part of that country you know to do with the ocean is. So vote for Donald Trump because he knows where the ocean is he's going to get s*** done and he's going to make America great again.
?
2016-03-31 23:07:48 UTC
a lot of republicans are traditional.
2016-03-29 12:40:48 UTC
Because they're conservatives, and conservatives are bigots.
?
2016-03-29 12:23:32 UTC
Because it is a sin. I care because the lord wants me to spread his word and help others to get to heaven.
?
2016-03-29 14:08:22 UTC
They just need a lesson on equality.
Anon
2016-03-31 08:52:46 UTC
Because they are unsatisfied with their lives so feel the need to belittle others.
Pineapple卐1488
2016-03-27 22:23:47 UTC
Because we have religious values. The heterosexuals in Sodom and Gomorrah were killed with the homosexuals for not doing anything to oppose it. We believe in the second coming and judgement of sins.
fahim
2016-03-28 02:18:23 UTC
Against the nature of life
Bruno D
2016-03-29 14:06:35 UTC
They oppose it because they pander to the bible beaters.
?
2016-03-28 22:46:22 UTC
I really don't know
?
2016-03-29 16:55:36 UTC
It has an impact on the culture, thus it has an impact on me, and our children, for the next generation and the next.
Melissa
2016-03-29 18:01:46 UTC
because they hate their own marriages
H
2016-03-28 13:19:25 UTC
Actually, some of them are supportive.
AMERICA IS DEAD
2016-03-28 13:01:04 UTC
The reason they claim is their "Christian faith". However, their lack of any other "Christian morals" puts the lie to it. Kim Davis, for instance, has been divorced.
2016-03-28 15:21:55 UTC
I don't know
2016-03-28 04:34:43 UTC
Republicans are morons!
javornik1270
2016-03-30 02:32:55 UTC
Maybe they want all of the gay for themselves...
Olive Garden
2016-03-29 09:35:01 UTC
so they say:" republicans are made up of fundamental christians...
Harry
2016-03-31 14:13:20 UTC
Because they are a bunch of annoying little shits!
Manuel
2016-03-27 22:23:01 UTC
Republicans are ignorant
General Chaos
2016-03-31 17:08:28 UTC
i dont support this beacues anywone should has babies not only ***** mafia :D

otherwise world will be full of **** :D

so technicaly wrong :D
mlln5691
2016-03-28 16:52:47 UTC
Says who?? Most dont im sure
evan
2016-03-31 00:20:09 UTC
Nah it's in the bible do it right
?
2016-03-28 21:32:50 UTC
How about the procriation? Do animals mate with the same sex?
?
2016-03-29 07:04:46 UTC
Their ignorant and living in the past.
2016-03-28 22:31:19 UTC
Not all do. Those that do have deep religious convictions.
Ethan
2016-03-31 19:14:08 UTC
Cause there bigots
Tim
2016-03-28 21:22:12 UTC
It has no benefit to society.
2016-03-29 17:46:34 UTC
BECAUSE THEY HATE TO SEE WHITE MEN, IN THEIR MIND OR DREAM OR IN REALITY BANGING EACH OTHER INTO THE A$$. I HOPE THIS ANSWER YOUR QUESTION.
Nalaka
2016-03-31 09:02:24 UTC
It is not a traditional
cheek
2016-03-30 15:56:54 UTC
I don't know.
2016-03-30 09:10:18 UTC
just hide in closet
2016-03-28 11:52:37 UTC
Because they believe anal sex is unhealthy silly
2016-03-31 08:42:35 UTC
Because it's nasty.
USAFisnumber1
2016-03-28 00:53:58 UTC
Hat sex spreads disease. Look up HIV and, USA 300,
2016-03-27 22:21:19 UTC
We look on it as a perversion and do not want it mainlined
?
2016-03-30 12:02:46 UTC
Because they're gays.
amy
2016-03-30 14:50:45 UTC
Not sure
Jason
2016-03-30 07:04:13 UTC
because they dont like to change,
Nathan
2016-04-01 05:19:32 UTC
depends of the republican not all do
Bob
2016-03-29 22:15:28 UTC
cuz its disgusting fam
?
2016-03-28 20:30:32 UTC
honestly no clue
arun
2016-03-28 19:19:03 UTC
ask em
American
2016-03-27 23:12:03 UTC
Because if passed anyone could marry a gay cow herd of say 100 gay cows or other pets

THEN they could file for disability because NO ONE WOULD HIRE A GAY COW ,,not even Walmart

then they would get disability about a $1000 a month so that is $100,000 per month or $1.2 MILLION PER YR

SO WE CAN'T HAVE EVERYONE GETTING A $1,200,000 CHECK FOR MARRING GAY COWS AND PETS
2016-03-29 16:52:26 UTC
they are arrogant pissed off people
2016-03-28 20:47:10 UTC
i'm vegan.
2016-03-30 21:31:05 UTC
Because its so WRONG.
qwertyuiop
2016-03-29 18:59:41 UTC
Because they stupid
?
2016-03-28 12:32:45 UTC
no and yes.
DK
2016-03-28 14:15:40 UTC
there the right wing conservative Christian right.
?
2016-03-28 15:37:54 UTC
It is wrong.
2016-03-28 06:51:21 UTC
no idea
ok
2016-03-29 07:31:53 UTC
ha ha really?
Kawsar
2016-03-31 09:17:19 UTC
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Ben Jacobs in Washington

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For many opponents of same-sex marriage, the fight has just started.



While supporters of marriage equality celebrate the supreme court’s historic decision in Obergefell v Hodges, advocates for traditional marriage have redoubled their efforts to influence policymakers. But the fight takes place in an unfamiliar political landscape, one where gay marriage has become the law of the land and one of the traditional benchmarks of the social conservative cause has been rendered meaningless.



No matter how ardently Republican candidates for president in 2016 proclaim that they believe marriage is between one man and one woman, the supreme court has ruled differently. So the issue for social-conservative voters is what to do now and how to tell whether candidates are sincere on the issue, and determined to fight it, or just “checking a box” with an intent to leave it alone.



In terms of policy to pursue, the key tactical divide in the Republican Party is whether to emphasize religious liberty laws, designed to protect bakers who don’t want to make cakes for gay weddings, or to instead directly challenge the supreme court and pursue a constitutional amendment to overturn its ruling.



Iowa-based conservative radio host Steve Deace is in the first camp.



“I really don’t care about [a] constitutional amendment any more – not going to happen,” he said, adding that conservatives have “allowed support for a constitutional amendment to become someone’s ‘check the box fig leaf’” when it has “a snowball’s chance in a really warm place” of succeeding.



Instead, Deace wanted to know if candidates are serious about “protecting religious freedom and religious liberty”. In particular, he is concerned that candidates have the capacity to articulate the importance of this issue.



“You can be great on this issue,” he said, “but if you cannot communicate this issue, in the [political and media] environment we’re in, we’re done.”





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Others are for going after the supreme court. In particular, former Arkansas governor and presidential candidate Mike Huckabee has used some heated rhetoric to accuse the court of “implementing judicial tyranny”, comparing its actions to those of King George III.



This willingness to challenge the judicial branch has been echoed by others, including the Princeton professor and prominent conservative thinker Robert George. He compared the court’s decision in Obergefell to the Dred Scott decision of 1857, which said black people could not be US citizens, and counselled its simple rejection.



To some conservatives, there is nothing particularly revolutionary in challenging the court. One well-connected GOP strategist based in the south pointed out a parallel on the left in the backlash to the court’s 2010 ruling to gut campaign finance laws in Citizens United. He noted that while Democrats are claiming Obergefell is the law of the land, they are still fighting the court’s ruling in Citizens, using it as a campaign issue and pushing for a constitutional amendment.



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The strategist expressed contempt at what he perceived as liberal hypocrisy on the subject, saying: “If you tell us to sit down and shut up about gay marriage, you sit down and shut up about Citizens United.”



Others favor an “all of the above” approach. The social conservative activist Bob Vander Plaats, for example, said he saw presidential campaigns as “laboratories for ideas on how to move forward on religious liberty, holding the court in check and upholding the law of nature and nature’s God on marriage”.



Vander Plaats said he thought candidates needed to be willing to lead on such issues, “not just check-mark the right box”, and offer specific “action steps”.



In a fiery speech on Thursday night in Washington, the “check the right box” attitude drew particular scorn from Rick Santorum. The former senator from Pennsylvania, who finished second in the Republican primaries in 2012 and is now running for the White House again, took aim at those who condemned the court’s decision but were willing to “move on”. They were hypocrites, he said.



If you tell us to sit down and shut up about gay marriage, you sit down and shut up about Citizens United

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Santorum proclaimed: “If you believe this is a tyrannical act of oligarchical judges, an affront on first-amendment rights and destructive of the basic building blocks of society and you say it’s time to move on, why are you running for president?”



He made clear he would not move on, and said: “This decision will not stand.”



Santorum’s stance was echoed by the Huckabee campaign. In a statement to the Guardian Hogan Gidley, a senior communications adviser tothe former Arkansas governor, said: “Republicans will never nominate a candidate for president that believes five unelected lawyers have the final say on fundamental issues like life, health and marriage.”





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However, not all Republicans see gay marriage as a major issue in future elections. Stuart Stevens, a top strategist for Mitt Romney in 2012, thought gay marriage was “a non-issue” after the court’s decision.



“There’s no difference in the law if you vote for [Iowa Republican] Steve King or Bernie Sanders,” he said.



Stevens went on to argue: “I just don’t see it as an issue that’s going to decide votes.



He also contrasted the issue with abortion.



“You could argue Roe vs Wade will be overturned,” Stevens said. “I don’t think anyone thinks [it] will.”



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On Thursday night in Washington, attendees at the second annual gala of the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) did not share Stevens’s attitude.



Members of a group that advocates for “marriage reality”, they seemed ready for a decades-long fight to restore traditional marriage. One speaker, Sherif Girgis, told attendees they were “sowing where we might not reap” and proclaimed: “The truth is going to reassert itself sooner or later; we just need someone to keep telling it.”



Brian Brown, the group’s president, laid out a five-point plan for the group to achieve its goals. This included a push to defeat pro-same sex marriage Republicans, based on the thesis that a pro-gay marriage Republican would do far more damage to the cause than a Democrat who supported gay marriage.



He also advocated for both a constitutional amendment and religious liberty legislation. In particular, Brown said the group would push a bill called the First Amendment Defense Act across the country in 2016. There would be an effort, he said, to push for it to be a ballot initiative in several states, in order to submit the issue to the will of the voters rather than a legislature in which “corporate powers can buy out and intimidate Republicans”.



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Brown started his five points with what he considered the most important of them: “electing a pro-marriage president”. Brown argued that the court’s decision could be easily overturned if the replacement of one of the five judges in the majority was named by a conservative president. He noted that this would be a far easier course to pursue than a constitutional amendment.



Brown also argued that merely signing a pledge on the issue wasn’t enough. Candidates, he said, needed to do more.



Moving forward, the question is which path will gain favor: a more populist attack on federal courts or a more narrowly focused and nuanced pushed for what social conservatives view as protections for religious liberty.



But regardless of which approach gains favor, it’s clear that the supreme court has not brought an end to the fight over same-sex marriage.
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2016-03-29 08:39:49 UTC
I am not a Republican. I used to be a Democrat but am now an independent. I have some liberal (left-wing) beliefs on some issues but not all issues. And I will say this:



Same-sex marriage does affect us all because:



We think it is important to tell our kids growing up that, if the child is a boy, someday you're going to find a nice girl and you'll love her so much and you'll want to get married to her. We want to tell our boys, "You're going to have to look for a girl to spend the rest of your life with. And you all will be in love and you'll be married and one day you'll have kids." We want to tell the boy that you'll have to find a girl to marry.



And we would want to tell little girls we have the same thing we tell the little boys. We want to tell them that one day they'll meet a really nice boy who they'll love and want to spend the rest of their life with and who they'll have kids with. We want to tell any little girl of ours that they have to find a boy.



And we want them to grow up seeing those examples. Like whenever there are pictures of weddings, we want there to be a man and a woman in the picture.



We think it is healthy for a little boy to grow up thinking, "I want to marry a good woman some day." We think it is healthy for a little girl to grow up thinking, "I want to marry a good man some day." We think it is healthy that boys grow up thinking that the person they should have sex with and the person that they express their truest, deepest feelings of love and the person that they express the utmost affection for should be a woman. If they get to thinking that, "Well, it could be a man or a woman." that wouldn't be as healthy and wholesome. It is good for boys to go ahead and have their options narrowed down for them, for the purposes of giving them the best mental health growing up. And we want to encourage them, in making lifestyle choices, to want to have kids of their own (through sexual intercourse with their wives). If for some reason that couple finds out they cannot have kids together (which happen sometimes), that is okay. The couple should stay together and see about adopting kids and raise those adopted kids in a loving way. But their first goal should, in most circumstances, should be to actually have some of their kids be kids that they created through the natural process. If they have some kid(s) that are through the natural process and some kid(s) who are adopted, that is fine. I am saying that it is the mentally healthiest thing for the boy to grow up with the goal that AT LEAST SOME of his kids that he has when he grows up are kids that are from the natural process. It is okay if they dream of adopting some kids. That is a healthy thought. But it is mentally healthiest if they grow up thinking that they want AT LEAST SOME of their kids to be kids from the natural process that took place between that couple.



And, for girls, I'll say the same thing. We think it is healthy for a little girls to grow up thinking, "I want to marry a good man some day." We think it is healthy that girls grow up thinking that the person they should have sex with and the person that they express their truest, deepest feelings of love and the person that they express the utmost affection for should be a man. If they get to thinking that, "Well, it could be a woman or a man." that wouldn't be as healthy and wholesome. It is good for girls to go ahead and have their options narrowed down for them (the same thing I said for boys), for the purposes of giving them the best mental health growing up. And we want to encourage them, in making lifestyle choices, to want to have kids of their own (through sexual intercourse with their husbands). If for some reason that couple finds out they cannot have kids together (which happen sometimes), that is okay. The couple should stay together and see about adopting kids and raise those adopted kids in a loving way. But their first goal should, in most circumstances, should be to actually have some of their kids be kids that they created through the natural process. If they have some kid(s) that are through the natural process and some kid(s) who are adopted, that is fine. I am saying that it is the mentally healthiest thing for the girl to grow up with the goal that AT LEAST SOME of her kids that she has when she grows up are kids that are from the natural process. It is okay if they dream of adopting some kids. That is a healthy thought. But it is mentally healthiest if they grow up thinking that they want AT LEAST SOME of their kids to be kids from the natural process that took place between that couple.



We want them to see examples of that. We want them to see images of men and women getting married to each other and settling down and building a life together filled with love and having kids together.



Therefore, we don't want to see a bunch of pictures of people of the same gender going through the official process of getting married. That will start to make it seem like, to kids, that this is a real option for them. And I don't think that is healthy for kids to grow up thinking they have all those options. I think it is healthiest that a kid grow up thinking that it has to be someone of the opposite gender that they marry, share the deepest feelings of love and compassion with, show the utmost affection for, and raise kids with.



With same-sex marriage being legal, kids are going to see a bunch of examples that run counter to that. That is why I would prefer that same-sex marriage be made illegal again.



I think it is great for a girl to grow up thinking that, if she gets married, she has to marry a man. And for a boy to grow up thinking that, if he gets married, he has to marry a woman. I think that would help the vast majority of people have a better shot at becoming more healthy and more wholesome individuals.



So, you see, same-sex marriage does end up affecting everybody, even those who are not gay or lesbian. It impacts the raising of our kids.



Now, I will say that I love gays, lesbians, bisexual, and transgender people as my brothers and sisters of mankind. I do not hate them. I love them. I do not approve of the lifestyle choice they make of mating with someone of the same gender. But I will choose to love the person doing the action even when I do not approve of the deed that they do. I have met some nice people who were LGBT. I thought they showed good character traits in other ways. I just hope for them that they will find a way to change their lifestyle as it comes to picking a mate. But they are still my neighbors and I love them. I don't approve of everything my neighbors do. Some of my neighbors do deeds that are not related to sexuality that I do not approve of, but I still love them. I would like to say that I want to raise my boy(s) and/or girl(s) in such a way that I encourage them to marry someone of the opposite gender. And I also want to raise them to love their LGBT neighbors. I want to raise them to not believe in that lifestyle choice, but I want to raise them to still love LGBT people as their brothers and sisters of humankind. I want to raise them to disapprove of the deed while still loving the person doing the action. I want to encourage my kids to hope that LGBT people change that part of their lifestyle; I hope that my kids will also wish the best for LGBT people. And everything that I have just said of how I would like to raise my kids: I would like to encourage all parents to do the same thing in raising their kids.
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2016-03-29 12:19:58 UTC
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Natalie
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Idk


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