Question:
Does the sex life of a politician really matter?
2007-05-08 13:06:54 UTC
Much was made of Clinton, Gary Hart and JFK. Soon the moral kleeglights will burn bright on Gingrich and Guiliani.

I personally don't care. Does it matter to you? Why?
26 answers:
LawDawg
2007-05-08 13:43:34 UTC
Ordinarily a person's sex life should be a private affair. But for someone who lives in the public eye, it can matter. Morality issues aside; a person's private life can interact with his public life and become an issue.



Even I, as a police officer, have a certain amount of responsibility to the public. While my sex life should be a private matter, it can become a concern to the public. If I were sleeping with prostitutes or drug addicts for example, then the public would have reason to doubt my ethics as a police officer. If I was regularly seen in bars, getting drunk and acting improperly with members of the opposite sex, then one would have to wonder about my integrity as a public official.



In the Clinton scandal; I would have felt much better if he had said "Yeah, I had sex with that woman, I admit it." rather than lie (particularly under oath, a felony perjury). If he would lie to the American people about that, what would he not lie about?



It can also be a matter of national security. I once read of an account of John F. Kennedy while he was fighting in WWII (long before he became president) having an affair with a known German spy. The spy reportedly had been under surveillance by the FBI. The FBI director, J. Edgar Hoover, sent a message to his friend Joe Kennedy and the affair was halted. If this affair (assuming it was true) had continued after he entered politics, then that could definetly be a concern for the American people.



Anyone who enters public office must realize that they live in a fishbowl, and their entire life is on public display. The public has a right to know any flaw that could effect the way that public official does his/her job. If their sex life should fall into that category, then yes it should matter. Otherwise, it is no one's business.
FM
2007-05-08 14:40:02 UTC
No it shouldn't really matter. However, when sex involves children, rape or infidelity, that is a problem. Sex is often used to compromise or gain favor over a politician in order to get the politician in line with an agenda. This is spy-craft 101 and is often used as a neutralization tool by holding "a mortgage" over someone. Despite what people think, Washington D.C. is run and controlled this way.



A terrible scandal that erupted in the mid 80's concerning child paedophilia took place in our nation's capitol and the White House itself. This is one of the best documented cases on how sex is used to control people. Many believe this case is what got The CIA director William Colby killed. Get the book the "Franklin Cover up" by John Decamp and I guarantee you will not look at our nation's elite the same way again.
2007-05-08 13:16:39 UTC
Honestly, it shouldn't really matter. However, many politicians use family values, and morales as a base for being elected. If they are being unfaithful and not subscribing to their own mission statement, then I think it does have validity and should be brought up because it's dishonesty.



This is the problem many politicians have, they use their image to get elected rather than what they can actually do for the country. If politicians got elected strictly on their issues, then their personal life couldn't be called into play. But if a politician uses it as a means of getting elected, he opens himself up to all possible critics and personal attacks..
lethander_99
2007-05-08 13:18:29 UTC
Yes it should, especially on high ranking politicians....



Since the beginning of time sex has been a tool that can be used to get information out of someone during "pillow talk"time Say Senator Whoever.. is on a secret comitee, but is also a very bad womanizer....he goes to a party one night and Natasha so and so (working for any foreign power) knows hes a slut and picks him up gets him drunk sleeps with him and pumps him for information so to speak. Being that he is openly a womanizer it makes it that much easier to learn the secrtes of this nation
2016-05-18 07:32:38 UTC
Do you think our Country should defend a Cheat ? If they cheat on the wives, they would cheat on anything they work with. Once a cheat, always a cheat and it just proves one thing. A Cheat has more activity in the private area then they do in the brains. We should not Judge, but when a cheat , will do wrong to our Country, it is a United States Judge that will Judge them.
-RKO-
2007-05-08 13:16:38 UTC
When political candidates portray themselves as men and women of 'honor' and 'family values' - it does matter. Because they should be expected to be held to a higher standard simply due to the office they're coveting.

Politicians should be expected to lead by example, not by covering up their malfeasance until they get caught. Let's face it: most politicians are slimy cretins anyway, and we deserve to know exactly how slimy they are. If they're womanizers, philanderers, child molesters, or perverts, we the voters should know about it. -RKO- 05/08/07
Brite Tiger
2007-05-08 13:15:45 UTC
I think that if they started going after all the presidential candidates on the subject of their sex lives, they could really talk about very little else. I think it's a very dangerous subject for the Democrats to open, or for anyone to open, and it's a complete irrelevancy as well.



The moral here is that the continuous carping from conservatives about media unfairness to their candidates has long been more of a tactic (to intimidate reporters toward softer coverage) than a statement of coherent principle or fact.



Today, one hears the absurd claim that Bill Clinton -- with the most scrutinized personal life in presidential history -- has gotten off easy compared to George W. Bush. Cyberpundit Matt Drudge, for example, recently complained about a Los Angeles Times story on Bush's Vietnam era draft-avoidance: "I don't ever remember the Los Angeles Times doing full exposes on Clinton dodging the draft," said Drudge. In fact, the L.A. Times repeatedly probed Clinton's draft evasion and its page-one expose on Sept. 2, 1992 re-ignited the story.



For folks who are more journalist than partisan, it should be possible to apply a single standard to the issue of reporting on the private lives of politicians. Call me old-fashioned, even "conservative," but I like the traditional rules: Except where private conduct strongly connects to public office, a politician's personal life is not news. Nor is gossip about such.



In the last dozen years, these rules have been shattered, as tabloid values and a ratings-above-all-else mentality have taken over much of the corporate-owned mainstream media, especially television. In 1991, NBC devoted a five-month investigation to "The Senator's Secrets," a segment focusing on whether a Democratic Senator had, years earlier, attended parties where drugs were used and whether he'd received sex -- or just a massage -- from a beauty queen. With a political press corps that seems to have grown bored covering politicians who aren't celebrities, personal gossip wins out over public issues and probes of "the character issue" are reduced to sex, drugs and draft dodging.



Pundits more readily find a character flaw when politicians partake of consensual sex than when they partake of policies that comfort the comfortable and afflict the afflicted. During the journalistic jihad of 1998, it was telling to see national news outlets become ferocious watchdogs chasing President Clinton's evasions about his private life when these same outlets acted more like toothless lapdogs as Clinton dissembled about major public issues from welfare to NAFTA to overseas bombings.



On the slippery slope into politicians' private lives, mainstream journalists have offered various excuses for abandoning old rules.



THE "NEW MEDIA" MADE ME DO IT: Once, only tabloid newspapers trafficked in gossip about public figures. Now there's the World Wide Web, which feeds talk radio, which feeds "all-news" cable. If we don't publish what millions of people have already heard or read, we're acting as censors, or people will think we missed the story. And, in the 24-hour news cycle, if we hold back to check the facts ourselves, we'll be beaten by the competition.



Yes, there are new pressures, perhaps none more significant than conglomerate ownership prodding news outlets toward quick ratings and short-term profits. But mainstream journalistic values themselves have eroded. Take the Gary Hart case. For the historically challenged, in 1987 there was no Web, no Drudge -- and CNN, with little clout, was all that existed in all news cable. It was "old media" journalists who stalked Hart: The Miami Herald set up a stakeout at his D.C. home and a Washington Post reporter asked, "Have you ever committed adultery?"



IT'S NOT ABOUT SEX: What we're covering isn't sex, it's his judgment (Hart).
Princess of the Realm
2007-05-08 15:00:59 UTC
Yes. Because unlike hired employees, these are elected officials. We elect the whole person, not just the business side of the person. They are and should be held to a higher standard and looked up to to do the job(s) we hired them to do. If they cannot control one side of their life, who says they will be able to do what we hired them to do.
libstalker
2007-05-08 13:15:08 UTC
It matters when they lie about it.



Gary Hart - "I invite the press to follow me around to check on my morals" - Can you say Donna Rice?



Billybob Clinton - "I did not have sex with that woman, Miss Lewinsky." - OOPS DNA on the old blue dress.



JFK - Judith Extner, Marilyn Monroe and others? - I think you get the picture. If they're willing to look you in the eye and lie about that, what else are these people lying about?
TG79
2007-05-08 13:25:54 UTC
YES When people get married they take a SOLEMN VOW to be faithful to their spouse, to be honest with their spouse, "forsaking all others", "for as long as we both shall live".



If a politician cannot remain faithful, loyal, and honest to his or her spouse then he will do the same with the constituents.
2007-05-08 13:13:24 UTC
only when they preach morals and then break the same princables they where telling the rest of us to obey, personally i dont care if they practice what they preach i mean think about ted haggard that guy is scum, but if he was just a junkie on the street it wouldnt have been so bad youd almost expect it, BOTTOM LINE NO ONE LIKES TO BE LIED TO
on my way
2007-05-08 13:17:20 UTC
Well yes, if one of your politicians is a pedophile shouldn't he go to jail like everyone else? Also sexual harassment is wrong and politicians shouldn't be excluded from punishments that we all would face if we broke the law.
2007-05-08 13:11:35 UTC
If a candidate makes his moral character an issue in an election by pandering to those who think it matters, then it is an issue to show his or her hypocrisy. Otherwise, if it does not interfere with his position and he is straightforward about it I do not think it should matter.
2007-05-08 13:14:58 UTC
We want our politicians to be of good moral character.

That's why improper conduct (sex) has brought down many a man.
bugeyes
2007-05-08 13:12:32 UTC
As I said before,I don't care if they bang hootchie mamas on the highway with a sign on their bare a**es! Just keep it out of the Oval office and concentrate. What you do at Motel 6 is your business.
Delphi
2007-05-08 13:13:54 UTC
Personally, the thought of clinton getting catered to by lewinski when he could have been stopping bin laden really annoys me. I think it kinda' does matter.



Of course, there are the daily reports of hollywood relationships (JLO and whomever, Angelina, Brad, ect) that we could definitly do without.

I think that, if you're going to be president, stay true to your wife.



(I don't blame clinton for cheating though)
Ben
2007-05-08 13:15:24 UTC
Yes, because once they discover sex they'll just procreate and we'll be inundated with more little politicians who don't know their **** from their elbow.
2007-05-08 13:13:00 UTC
Only if it affects his ability to perform his functions as a politician. I personally don't care and really don't want to know about the details. Memo to press....see above.
Lori B
2007-05-08 13:12:43 UTC
What they do in bed and who they do it with is of no concern to me. As long as it doesn't interfere with their doing their job. In other words no sleep overs during a crisis.
2007-05-08 13:11:55 UTC
all of us need to learn about our leaders and how they express themselves when buried to the hilt within a female. This will tell us how they think
mnwomen
2007-05-08 13:12:55 UTC
If you cheat on your wife it shows a lack of character. I personally think if you cheat on your wife then whats to stop you from doing something else ethically wrong.
Magpie
2007-05-08 13:12:05 UTC
Not their sex life personally but their views on sex.
2007-05-08 13:12:43 UTC
yes!

it shows morals...

we don't need the promiscuous running the country

we need stability

if you can cheat on your wife who your supposed to love cherish and hold near to your heart

how bad are you gonna screw us Americans?? you can bet beyond a shadow of a doubt that if you think less of your spouse your not gonna hold those you don't even know very high
Blackacre
2007-05-08 13:11:36 UTC
It should only be of concern to their spouse.
Duane T
2007-05-08 13:12:24 UTC
Shouldn't matter any more or any less than any other employee...
Stephanie is awesome!!
2007-05-08 13:11:21 UTC
Nope.What do I care what they do in their personal life as long as it doesn't interfere with their political life.


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