Seriously, you talk about Democratic Socialism like it's some utopia. Nothing could be further from the truth.
I'm a Chicagoan living in Prague, but I've travelled all over Europe, so I know how things are in all the EU. What I see with "typical" socialism is that people just get used to living third-rate lives. They can't even conceive of having better conditions. For example, I have a 160 m2 apartment, practically kingly conditions for European standards. My European friends can't even conceive of living in anything bigger than the typical, horribly cramped 50 m2 apartments I call rabbit holes.
Why this disparity? Socialism encourages people to just accept mediocrity. You go to the doctor cheaply, but you wait in an agonizingly long line. And the quality of care you get is so substandard most of the time that people who can afford private care for something like a knee operation take that option, and pay for it out of their own pocket !!
Now, let's look at Communism:
I can prove to you that Communism is evil, perverts mans' nature, kills his spirit, and therefore cannot be successful. All totalitarian regimes have one achilles heel: they cannot tolerate dissent because it can destroy their hold on power. That is why dictators squelch protest with so much force. A little protest can grow like cancer and get out of control. Hence, no dissent can be permitted.
To command total control, all totalitarian regimes (like Communism) therefore must control all means of communication: the radio, tv, newspapers, etc. In China, they used to require people to have a permit just to own a typewriter! That's how scared the rulers are of dissent. And why? Because if the populace knew the truth, they would rebel.
What truth? Simply put, Communism is a con game. It's just another word for slavery. Yes.... slavery!
In all Communist systems you invariably end up with the bloated Communist Party bosses having the best of everything, all the luxuries and perks denied to the general public. So in effect, 99% of the population is working to enrich the top party bosses. And the best part (for the bosses) is that the public cannot complain. Dissent is outlawed.
Communism never distributes wealth equally, and it certainly does not eliminate social classes. Rather it just divides you into one of two classes: the small ruling party Communist Party bosses, or the 99% who work like slaves to support them. Look at Communist Russia. While the average Joe was waiting in line for a lousy bag of oranges or some half-rotted bananas, the Communist Party bosses lived lifes of luxury: fine, imported luxury automobiles, gourmet food, vacations (even foreign vacations, which were denied to the average citizen).
Another reason Communism cannot succeed is that there will always be some brave people who refuse to live life on their knees. They refuse to be a pawn of the State. You may be wondering what I'm talking about. Well, here's how Communism works:From birth, you are controlled. In school they check for signs of rebellion. If they think you are too clever for your own good or have too much ambition than the Communist system can allow for, you will have your career sabotaged.
In Communism, you can only study when, where, if they allow you to. That means, if they suspect you could be trouble later in life, they will assign you some dead end job in a factory, even though you are a financial wizard, or a great political analyst.
In Communism, you have very few rights. They tell you where you can live. If you disobey the state, they can take away your living accomodations. They can reassign you to another job. You don't pick your job; the state assigns one to you.
How is someone supposed to feel when the really own nothing, and at a whim the government can take what little they have away just because you object to living like a serf? It's obvious that Communism destroys the human spirit. Look at how many people over the decades actually immolated themselves (burnt themselves to death) rather than live under Communist rule. Can you imagine someone torching themselves because they didn't want to live in a free society? No, that would be absurd.
Here's the worst thing about Communism: it makes people so paranoid they won't even socialize with their neighbors. Here in the Czech Republic people quickly realized that your neighbor might be a snitch. Being a snitch was rewarded by the government. If you tattled on someone who was disloyal to the State, you'd get extra money, a better job, or a nicer apartment. Maybe a car.
Hence, neighbors stopped speaking to one another. You could never know who could be trusted. Even to this day, even though Communism has been gone for twenty years, old habits die hard. Neighbors still are in the habit of keeping to themselves.
It is really sad.Communism promised to create a "new, selfless man". In reality, it will always create a drone, just an en